1. What do I want? LOVE, why did I have a hard time answering this question when all I do is bmw about it everyday.
2. What am I grateful for? All the blessings that I receive each morning I wake up.
3. What’s missing in my life? Contentment, happiness seems too much to ask for.
4. Do I see the whole world anew each day? No
5. Do I take the time to really listen to what others say? I try my best. I think I’m a very good listener.
6. Do I have fun? Sometimes
7. How can I bring more joy into my life? By doing the things I enjoy. Key word is “I”.
8. What do I want more of in my life? Good tight circle of friends and great experiences such as traveling
9. What do I want less of in my life? Stress and/or Drama
10. Am I on the look out for opportunities? Yes and no
11. Do I seize opportunities? Yes
12. Am I open-minded? Am I flexible? Yes, very flexible
13. Am I quick to judge others? I try not to
14. Do I take calculated risks? Too often
15. Do I give others sincere compliments? Not as often as I should
16. Do I appreciate what others do for me? yes
17. Where do I want to go? Vacations with my children
18. Who do I want to meet? People that make me want to be better
19. What adventures do I want to go on? Traveling would be adventure enough for me.
20. Do I care too much about what others think of me? Yes
21. Do I take offense too easily? No
22. What makes me happy? Having my kids necessities met.
23. Do I procrastinate? No
24. Do I stand up for myself? Not like I should
25. Do I hold grudges? No
26. Do I constantly dwell on the past? No
27. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me? Yes
28. Do I forgive myself? No
29. Do I smile often? No
30. Do I laugh often? No
31. Do I surround myself with positive, life-affirming people who want the best for me? Yes
32. Am I a positive, life-affirming person? Yes
33. Am I giving enough time to nurturing/replenishing myself? No
34. What is my secret ambition? To be a flight attendant
35. What do I want to be remembered for at the end of my life? A genuine person
36. What does success mean to me? Being my best self
37. How can I add value to the life of others? Being considerate and encouraging.
38. How can I serve? I don’t want to serve.
39. What can I do better than anyone else? LISTEN
40. What are my top three strengths? Great listener, which is a strength a lot of people lack. Very considerate of others, another strength people lack and patient.
41. Am I moving in the direction of my dreams? No
42. Do I tell others what I really want? I do but I also feel no one is listening
43. What does my ideal day look like? An ideal day for me is going to work and doing my job efficiently and effectively. Coming home and being mommie to my kids. Cooking, helping with homework, giving them whatever they need from me.
44. Where do I want to be a year from now? Five years from now? Ten years from now? Twenty years from now? A year from now I’d like to be able to say I make better decisions in my personal life. Five years from now I’d like to take the steps to being a flight attendant. Ten years from now I’d like to have sold my house and moved somewhere with better opportunities. Maybe closer to my job (flight attendant). In twenty years I’d like to have a purchased a new home and married or at least be in a committed relationship.
45. What does my ideal living environment look like? A nice home in a friendly neighborhood with neighbors that care about you.
46. What would I do if I had no fear? Be more outspoken when I need to be.
47. What would I do if money were not an object? Definitely sell my house, move out of state but not to far, pursue my dreams to becoming a flight attendant and make sure my kids get a college education.
48. What excuses am I making? Since this is the best it will ever be I might as well make the best of it. I needed to go into to detail with that but I'm not.
49. Do I enjoy what I do on a daily basis? Yes
50. Am I on the right path? If there is a such thing as walking in the middle that's where I am.
51. Am I kind to myself? No
52. Am I kind to others? Yes
53. Do I take things for granted? No
54. Am I doing what matters most right now? Yes
55. Is there an area in my life that needs more attention? Yes
56. Do I make the best use of my time? No
57. What can I do right now that would make the biggest difference in my life? Stop worrying about what I don’t have.
58. What am I avoiding?
59. What am I tolerating/putting up with? Relationships that have no potential.
60. Do I have specific, measurable goals with clear deadlines? No
61. Do I keep the promises I make to myself? No
62. Do I keep the promises I make to others? No
63. For my life to be perfect, what would have to change? Me
64. What am I most looking forward to right now?
65. What activities do I perform that give me the least joy? Do they really need doing? Can I delegate or pay someone else to do them? I can’t think of anything that I do that I don’t want to do.
66. How can I simplify my life? Not worrying about what others think about me.
67. Do I see myself as a creative person? Yes
68. Do I allow myself to be creative? Yes
69. Can I be spontaneous? Yes
70. Am I too critical of myself? Yes
71. Am I too critical of others? No
72. Do I look at problems from several different angles and perspectives? No
73. What have I accomplished? Buying a home and a job that I enjoy.
74. What are the major sources of stress in my life? People and my children
75. How can I reduce stress in my life? Not deal with people
76. Do I know where my money is going? Yes
77. Do I have a handle on my finances? Not 100% but I'm close
78. Do I have a financial plan for the future? No
79. Do I know where my time is going? Yes
80. Have I created an efficient time management system for myself? Yes
81. What are the three biggest priorities in my life? Kids, my bills and me.
82. Who are the most important people in the world to me? My family
83. Who loves me? Who cares for me? My family, the people I work with, and maybe a few people outside of that
84. Are my living and work areas organized in a way that serves me well? Yes
85. Do I have a healthy lifestyle? No
86. Am I carrying any emotional baggage? Yes
87. Have I let go of the mistakes I’ve made in the past? No, people are always reminding you of when you failed. Instead of encouraging you to be better.
88. Do I give myself permission to fail? Yes
89. Do I learn from my mistakes? No.
90. Do I rebound quickly when something goes wrong? Yes
91. Do my beliefs serve me well? Yes.
92. Do I need to relax the rules I’ve set for myself and for others? No
93. What childhood dreams have I been neglecting?
94. Where have I been giving my power over to others? I’ve been giving my power to others in the way that I live my life.
95. What do I need to do in order to regain my power? Let them know I have to answer for myself. Whether right or wrong.
95. Who are my role models? I don’t have a role model. There are people that I admire.
96. Am I being authentic? Do I allow myself to be me? Am I trying to be somebody I’m not? I do feel that I can’t be myself the majority of the time. I don’t pretend to be something I’m not but I feel I can rarely be me. So I choose to surround myself with people who I can be myself around. If I can help it I avoid situations if I can’t be me.
97. What if . . . ?
98. Why not . . . ?
99. How can I . . . ?
A self assessment test to make you think about the things you want in life. If you answer honestly it points out some of the things in life that you need to work on and strive for. There were several questions I didn't have an answer for, I'm clearly clueless about. Important questions and because I don't have an answer I feel I need a lot more work than I thought. I always maintained that I am a work in progress. I'm trying to be a better ME. It's really simple but we always make things hard when they shouldn't be. #Life
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