I don’t know why I didn’t pay this any attention before but
anyway. Ladies do you remember the lame, unpopular dudes from high school that
were so freaking annoying? I remember several losers that made me gag,
seriously. They thought it was attractive to pant over you like a dog, follow
you around acting childish and silly. Guys like this never stood a chance with
me or anyone in my clique. There were also some quiet, laid back, nice guys in
high school too. They just weren’t fun or well-known. Plain Joe’s standing on
the wall watching. Sadly, they lacked the confidence so many of us had. They may
have had a boring, uneventful high school experience. For some reason they
blame the popular kids because they went unnoticed, the popular kids didn't
reach out to them. It’s not fair to blame the popular kids for not including
you. You and your crew could have done your own thing just as the popular kids
did. The popular kids didn't tell you your were nobody. You chose to be nobody.
It’s how you saw yourself. God made us
all unique individuals. God made me Golden and I live and wear it to a T at
times. In high school, we girls always
fell for the no good-bad boy, popular dudes that cheated and played games with
our minds and our feelings. We girls were so blind, young and dumb; we just
didn’t know any better. All I thought about was what I wanted. I was so full of
myself that anyone else’s feelings were never a concern of mine. For me, it was
all about athletes and dope boys. Now that we are older and wiser the nice,
laid back guy is very appealing to us. The nerdy, hound dog is mature and
handsome. They went to college, have a good job, are financially stable and
just down right sexy. We look and think, “dang, why didn’t I give him a chance
in high school”. Ladies I want you to beware of these guys though. I’m not saying
all of them but some of them are making up for not being noticed in high
school. They aren’t the nice guys they used to be. Oh no, they off the wall now
and they are salty. They ready to give all the popular girls a taste of their
own medicine. Don’t let them blindside you. You’re thinking he’s still that lil
quiet fella from back in the day. Nah, don’t trust it. He’s holding a grudge
because you or a girl like you didn’t give him any play back in the day. They
mad because they didn’t get noticed and hang out with the cool crowd. You took
all his candy and gave it to your friends or boyfriend. You may have
embarrassed him in front of his friends or in the school cafeteria or you
simply didn't know he was crushing on you because he too afraid to let you know.
These guys don’t care that we were immature and selfish. They don’t care that
we have been dogged and dragged by unworthy, trifling guys. They don’t care
that we are wounded, broken and simply just want to be loved. The only thing
they thinking about is payback. They want to add you to the notch on their belt
and boost their ego. They think they’re doing something because they finally
got the popular girl from high school to give them some play. They just don’t
know it’s all karma. Once chicks get smart to their game no one will want them.
They’ll be just like the cool, popular guys from high school, all of them old,
looking sad with no one to be by their side or to take care of them because
they want to play games. They will once again be losers. Guys don’t seem to
remember most woman are smarter than them. We are born with gifts; we know when
something isn’t right in a relationship or about a person. One thing we woman
don’t do is tolerate crap and when we get fed up, we’re out.
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