Monday, September 21, 2015

Revenge of the Nerds

I don’t know why I didn’t pay this any attention before but anyway. Ladies do you remember the lame, unpopular dudes from high school that were so freaking annoying? I remember several losers that made me gag, seriously. They thought it was attractive to pant over you like a dog, follow you around acting childish and silly. Guys like this never stood a chance with me or anyone in my clique. There were also some quiet, laid back, nice guys in high school too. They just weren’t fun or well-known. Plain Joe’s standing on the wall watching. Sadly, they lacked the confidence so many of us had. They may have had a boring, uneventful high school experience. For some reason they blame the popular kids because they went unnoticed, the popular kids didn't reach out to them. It’s not fair to blame the popular kids for not including you. You and your crew could have done your own thing just as the popular kids did. The popular kids didn't tell you your were nobody. You chose to be nobody. It’s how you saw yourself.  God made us all unique individuals. God made me Golden and I live and wear it to a T at times.  In high school, we girls always fell for the no good-bad boy, popular dudes that cheated and played games with our minds and our feelings. We girls were so blind, young and dumb; we just didn’t know any better. All I thought about was what I wanted. I was so full of myself that anyone else’s feelings were never a concern of mine. For me, it was all about athletes and dope boys. Now that we are older and wiser the nice, laid back guy is very appealing to us. The nerdy, hound dog is mature and handsome. They went to college, have a good job, are financially stable and just down right sexy. We look and think, “dang, why didn’t I give him a chance in high school”. Ladies I want you to beware of these guys though. I’m not saying all of them but some of them are making up for not being noticed in high school. They aren’t the nice guys they used to be. Oh no, they off the wall now and they are salty. They ready to give all the popular girls a taste of their own medicine. Don’t let them blindside you. You’re thinking he’s still that lil quiet fella from back in the day. Nah, don’t trust it. He’s holding a grudge because you or a girl like you didn’t give him any play back in the day. They mad because they didn’t get noticed and hang out with the cool crowd. You took all his candy and gave it to your friends or boyfriend. You may have embarrassed him in front of his friends or in the school cafeteria or you simply didn't know he was crushing on you because he too afraid to let you know. These guys don’t care that we were immature and selfish. They don’t care that we have been dogged and dragged by unworthy, trifling guys. They don’t care that we are wounded, broken and simply just want to be loved. The only thing they thinking about is payback. They want to add you to the notch on their belt and boost their ego. They think they’re doing something because they finally got the popular girl from high school to give them some play. They just don’t know it’s all karma. Once chicks get smart to their game no one will want them. They’ll be just like the cool, popular guys from high school, all of them old, looking sad with no one to be by their side or to take care of them because they want to play games. They will once again be losers. Guys don’t seem to remember most woman are smarter than them. We are born with gifts; we know when something isn’t right in a relationship or about a person. One thing we woman don’t do is tolerate crap and when we get fed up, we’re out.

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